SHOWING THE IMPLEMENTS

I was an Amnesty International supporter for many years and wrote enough letters for many a despot to quail in their boots. So plainly I oppose political torture of any sort.

Sexual torture, when safe, sane and consensual, is a different matter. With the right amount of mind fuck, it can be an act of magic. Here I have taken advice from the experts and this is a useful old trick from the CIA which I enjoyed immensely.  

Show the implements. I am back to the idea of fear vs dread, which I mentioned previously. You want to arouse dread in your sub, the kind that cannot be adjusted to, the constant mind fuck of unpredictability. Working with dread keeps both of you on your toes. You need a keen mind, an ability to be flexible and mentally nimble, and in this case you need a range of implements. Showing your implements lets the future unfold for your sub right in front of their eyes. And it is nasty! As well as unpredictable. Let the sub choose from a range of implements, for example choosing one of two canes or one of three dildos. Then you use the one they didn't choose. This gives them the illusion of control, and then dashes it. Because in the end, who has control? Who decides? Mistress decides. Oh yes, Mistress always decides.

Implements from sex stores or websites are often pretty but not very effective, especially for the experienced masochist. As I often say, no one wants the small one twice. So you need a range, and home made or improvised is often best. Because I specialized in cock and ball torture, the most extreme things I ever used were a palm sander and a cheese grater. Use clothes pegs for nipple clamps; they are much fiercer. The fun comes when you take them off. 

In some cases it is not safe to improvise. I would not recommend anything that splinters or comes apart if inserted. Implements must be able to be disinfected using proprietary toy cleaner or Oxyvir.  Urethral sounds or electrical toys are best bought from sites you trust. It is worth asking wise subs what their worst mistakes were. For example, do not insert an egg whisk in your ass. Don't insert anything you aren't certain about getting out. 

Here is a poem about implements. 

IF I REALLY LIKE YOU

If I really like you
I will hurt you

I will be your kitchen witch.
I will hurt you with
The wooden spoon
The box grater
The sharpest knife.

I will be your handy man.
I will hurt you with
The plunger
The screw driver
The electric sander.

I will be your woods woman.
I will hurt you with
Wasps
Ropes
Nettles.

I will be your fashionista.
I will hurt your with
My belt
My highest heel
My chains.

But only if I really like you.

As always, blessings on you, gentle reader.